“It's okay. Take it easy!”;

“Don’t sweat it!”;

"It’s not a big deal!”

Those words probably can encourage someone when they are in trouble. But, how about yourselves? Can you convince yourself that you're okay? Can you believe that what you face is not a big deal? Well, those cheer-up phrases  sounds like a complete non-sense if you ARE in discouragement.

When you feel like everything is screw up, everybody isn't on your side, or you want to soon get over with this world (*gasp*), one thing that comes in your mind is "Life is sucks". But hey, don't you know that you have something else to show? Life is simple, but it's not easy.

We are not kids anymore, though we aren't adults yet, we should act maturely to face every single matters in our lives. It's okay to be angry, it's absolutely okay to shed a tear, but the most important thing is about your action towards the problem. Running away lasts temporarily, in fact, the problem is getting bigger and bigger. As grown-up people, spare your time to think about your life and all that matters. Choose to remain silent for a moment. Let the others keep going, let them get through the routines, just like nothing happens, bit be careful..! Don't let yourselves drown in blissful ignorance. That's a very common thing that people do when they feel pessimist about this world. Face everything with a big heart.. Get to know yourselves and others well.. Problems are the substance of life.. You're made up to face them and you're grown because of it.

 Actually, I don't have any rights to say such a thing.. I ain't expert or counselor and sometimes I want to screw myself up. From what I've been through, it's true that problems are damn irritating, but if we take a look from the other side, when we could face them with a big heart and careful thinking, indeed we can just laugh at them in the end. Think about the very first cause of your problem. The best choice is try to be modest, it's not always about win or lose on something, but about the result you will get for yourself, right. Doesn't matter about what other people thinking. If they humiliate you because of your problem, it means they just don't have any guts to challenge you. In a short term, they're just jealous  because you're shining enough to look so mature over those problems. 



In the end, be sure to face everything based on your ages and wisely. Everybody wants to feel bubbles of happiness, right..? :) Start to think positively.. At least say "Thank You" on the moment you open your eyes in the morning and at late night.. Believe it or not, gratitude may boost your "happy feeling" and I'm pretty sure you've already felt this way before. Hohoho.. When you can convince yourselves with every positive things, absolutely there's no doubt you can be on utter bliss and face the days with wide smiles~ :D